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Making it 'Facebook Official': Reflecting on romantic relationships through sustained Facebook use

Lincoln, S and Robards, B (2016) Making it 'Facebook Official': Reflecting on romantic relationships through sustained Facebook use. Social Media and Society, 2 (4). ISSN 2056-3051

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For the past twelve years, Facebook has played a significant role in mediating the lives of its users. Disclosures on the site go on to serve as intimate, co-constructed life records, albeit with unique and always-evolving affordances. The ways in which romantic relationships are mediated on the site are complex and contested: What is the significance of articulating a romantic relationship on Facebook? Why do some choose to make socially and culturally critical moments like the beginning and ends of relationships visible on Facebook, whereas others (perhaps within the same relationship) do not? How do these practices change over time? When is it time to go ‘Facebook official’? In this paper we draw on qualitative research with Facebook users in their twenties in Australia and the UK who have been using the site for five or more years. Interviews with participants revealed that romantic relationships were central to many of their growing up narratives, and in this paper we draw out examples to discuss four kinds of (non-exclusive) practices: 1) overt relationship status disclosures, mediated through the ‘relationship status’ affordance of the site; 2) implied relationship disclosures, mediated through an increase in images and tags featuring romantic partners; 3) the intended absence of relationship visibility; and 4) later-erased or revised relationship disclosures. We also critique the ways in which Facebook might work to produce normative ‘relationship traces’, privileging neat linearity, monogamy, and obfuscating (perhaps usefully, perhaps not) the messy complexity of romantic relationships.

Item Type: Article
Uncontrolled Keywords: Facebook; Relationships; Romance; Sexuality; Social Media
Subjects: H Social Sciences > HQ The family. Marriage. Woman
Q Science > QA Mathematics > QA76 Computer software
Divisions: Humanities & Social Science
Publisher: Sage Publications
Date Deposited: 19 Jul 2016 09:22
Last Modified: 04 Sep 2021 12:42
DOI or ID number: 10.1177/2056305116672890
URI: https://researchonline.ljmu.ac.uk/id/eprint/3903
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